It seems that over the past couple months or so, I started having and engaging in more political discussions (on account of the presidential election). When you’re in that space, it feels like you need to have an opinion on every little thing. Geopolitics, taxes, financial policy, etc. How important is it to educate myself and ask questions? Do you feel that pressure to have an opinion on everything?

edit: I don’t think this question is about politics, but if it is, I can delete this.

  • RBWells@lemmy.world
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    It’s ok to not have an opinion, and also ok to be ambivalent about something.

    Your time and attention are not unlimited resources.

  • AnarchistArtificer@slrpnk.net
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    I got a hell of a lot smarter when I allowed myself to not have opinions on things. Like if a friend asks me if I have heard of [thing], I am nowadays much better at saying “No, I havent, tell me more” or “I’m not sure. It sounds familiar though. Remind me?”. A big part of this is being in spaces where it feels safe enough to be vulnerable in saying “I don’t know”.

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    Yes, not having an option on something is fine. when people push you can always whip out “I don’t know enough about the topic to have an opinion.”

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      And if you want to fuck with conspiracy wackos you add “So I would just refer to experts on the subject if I wanted to learn about it.”

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    I pick my subjects based on how much I actually have a fair deal of knowledge about.

    I don’t dare enter discussions that’s beyond my knowledge, like hardcore scientific shit.

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    I would say it’s better to not have an opinion than to have an uninformed opinion.

    Like a kid who has a strong opinion on a food that they’ve never tried. How can you know you don’t like something if you never tried it? Sure.

    You could look at the ingredients and if you don’t like anything that goes in it you can assume that you wouldn’t like the end product, but at least some thought went into at that point.

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    Not having an opinion is MUCH better than sticking to an uninformed opinion with stubborn fervor. Nobody can possibly know everything, so it’s perfectly fine to take time out to research something, or decide that it’s not worth your time and forget about it completely.

  • HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world
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    I mean, it’s okay to not have positions on a lot of things. People tend to get upset if the position you’re dithering over is whether they or their loved ones deserve to live or have equal human rights. Most other things, honorable people may differ.

    How important is it to educate yourself and ask questions?

    Very. Everything is political, and ignorance about politics is a luxury. It allows others to make decisions for you, often ones you wouldn’t choose yourself.