• sleen@lemmy.zip
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    8 hours ago

    Peaceful arguments is just not a thing online. There is no learning nor seeing the other perspective - Just people being defensive and manipulative.

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      3 hours ago

      You win debates for onlookers, you’re not meant to change the perspective of the person you’re debating, you’re meant to make them look like idiots so that any lurkers who quietly agree feel bad and change their viewpoint. The left lost because they weren’t willing to do this hard enough.

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        The on lookers don’t care. That’s why they are on lookers. The best you might do is prevent someone searching for an ideology blindly adopting some rando’s. Honestly, though, if they are letting rando’s arguing online form their worldview you are far from actually helping them.

    • ZILtoid1991@lemmy.worldOP
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      6 hours ago

      It unfortunately also not a thing in real life. Tried to convince my mother’s partner that transphobia and homophobia is bad. Best I could do is to him admit it was not about “protecting the children”.

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        It never has been and never will be about protecting the children, not with the full roster of diddlers they keep in positions of authority…

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      8 hours ago

      It is possible, but especially in the bigger communities its usually just throwing poop at each other(that’s at least my experience).

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        37 minutes ago

        Yeah I’ve burned a depressing amount of time in conversations that aren’t going somewhere. And yet, I keep finding myself back at that toxic ass watering hole 😔