• Lowlee Kun@feddit.de
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    While that might be true for most healthy people you can also grow up to not feel guilty while being guilty and the other way around. Source: I feel guilty for heating my apartment when i freeze.

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      Idk if you still need to hear this but you deserve and have every right to be warm and comfortable in your own home (:

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        I dunno. If they were my neighbors when I was in apartments… they’re the reason I opened my windows in winter despite it being -10 f outside. (It was like 80f inside? With my heater off. Property management had to have more than one chat with me- open windows was a no-no; and then with the neighbors next door.

        Ordinarily, yes, you’re right,

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      True. I still find myself with remnants of weird shit like that. I was taught that it was my fault for someone assuming I was guilty, so I had to go out of my way to never seem guilty, and feel guilty if someone thought I was.

      I still find myself over-explaining shit when I’m innocent.

      Religion is cancer.

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        Was religion for me too. I remember how i was always told to have done evil by doing things like playing pokemon on the gameboy of my cousin or having a “monsters” on the Bayblades. Questioning anything religious? Evil. And so on.