• Track_Shovel@slrpnk.netOP
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    7 hours ago

    I don’t think that the original tweet is really getting at stereotypes, but rather pointing out how frustrating it must be to not know who’s going to be a scumbag and who is not.

    It’s not all men, most certainly, yet chauvinism counties to be (an increasing problem). One of the (very make dominated) places I worked had to put up signs that read looking versus leering: know the difference. I’m male, and I most certainly get the frustration after hearing more than a few first hand accounts about how women are routinely mistreated.

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      6 hours ago

      The original tweet is a response to people who are annoyed at being stereotyped. I get it. I have daughters I wish didn’t have to worry about this shit. But I also think we’re not addressing the problem the right way. It’s actually making the problem worse and isolating people enough that they fall to the sway of fascist propaganda.

      If you take this same tweet and swap out men with [your minority racial/religious/gender group of your choice] it’ll probably get you banned in most communities here. But it’s about men (generalized) so it is for some reason allowed.

      • grue@lemmy.world
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        5 hours ago

        If you take this same tweet and swap out men with [your minority racial/religious/gender group of your choice] it’ll probably get you banned in most communities here. But it’s about men (generalized) so it is for some reason allowed.

        “If you take criticism of aggressors and swap it out to criticize their victims instead, it pisses people off.”

        No shit, Sherlock! That’s because aggressors are different than victims.

            • sunzu2@thebrainbin.org
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              4 hours ago

              You arguement has no logical foundation

              You determine if the subject is a victim or the aggressor depending on what narrative you shilling at that time.

              This is disingenuous post modern subjectivist bullshit

              Cheers ;)

              • grue@lemmy.world
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                4 hours ago

                You determine if the subject is a victim or the aggressor depending on what narrative you shilling at that time.

                TIL that understanding context is “shilling for a narrative.” 🙄

                You know what’s really “disingenuous post modern subjectivist bullshit?” Pretending that victims become aggressors just because they act in their own self-defense. And that’s what the “not all men” whiners in this thread are doing.

            • kshade@lemmy.world
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              4 hours ago

              Bad faith is applying the same bad rhetoric/logic to two groups and act like it’s perfectly fine and reasonable in one instance but really awful in the other. Especially if one group is literally a subset of the other. It’s not a “gotcha”, it’s an attempt to make you realize what you’re doing. Prejudice is bad, no exceptions.