Fuck you, I’m not waiting longer than I need to. I’m doing DIY if my therapist doesn’t write me the letter, I’m not finding another one and wasting more months talking about worthless feelings just so they can maybe write me a letter when I could’ve started DIY and began the journey already.

I’ve seen people talk shit and try and argue that detransition rates are higher than they really are. They’ve used that to justify long wait times for HRT and transitioning. I just didn’t want people to give me the speech about how the wait is to make me sure so I don’t regret it and detransition. I know that won’t happen because I desperately want the changes, my flat chest gives me immense dysphoria.

I have no idea why or if my therapist is gatekeeping me, it could just be that she hasn’t written the letter yet, but I for one am not willing to wait more months for her to do so. The sooner I start the better.

I was never able to get a girlfriend, so I decided to become the girlfriend (I still really wish I had a girlfriend ☹️).

Superglue is way worse than wheatpaste, if wheatpaste is hard to remove, superglue is impossible without causing extensive surface damage, especially on plastic surfaces.

Get a superglue bottle with a brush and coat the surface in that before putting the sticker on it. It’ll make it a pain to remove and basically impossible without surface damage.

In the bathrooms of any red state or republican-leaning town.

Hell yeah 😎🏳️‍⚧️💪

Me too, I’ve been growing mine out, I plan to wear it in a ponytail like my Picrew avatar

Yes I do also plan on dying it red on the ends, just like my Picrew.

https://twitter.com/427Deer/status/1390150286749192194

Also on here: https://e926.net/posts/2788793

She’s trans, please don’t use the term futa, it’s extremely objectifying and also transphobic.

I wish we had more trains here. Been watching Not Just Bikes and it seems so nice to not need to drive places. Owning a car is so expensive.

Agreed, I wish they’d stop with this whole discourse. Just let me fucking take estrogen. I’ve been waiting months and talking to a therapist, if I don’t get it by march I’d doing DIY. I encourage others to join me, no more shit, no more games. Just Do It.

Yeah, though I am more flexible than most people when it comes to that. Many people are either tops or bottoms mostly, I’m happy with both.

I never feel bad for correcting them when they self-incorrect themselves. I tend to be more on the aggressive side when someone gets it right the first time but then goes “sorry sir”. One time I went off on a waitress for doing it, and she looked so scared and deeply regretted it, she looked like she was going to cry. After the meal when she brought the check she apologized profusely for misgendering me. So I think being a bitch about being misgendered is sometimes a good thing. When I’ve been nice people are pleasant but end up forgetting. But when I’m a bitch, they remember.

It’s like spritzing a cat’s face with water to get them to stop doing that thing they shouldn’t be doing. Unpleasant but necessary.

Ok that’s fair enough, I guess we’ll just have to agree to disagree and end it at that.

For the record I apologize if I came off as too harsh to their claims. I should’ve been more understanding. I’m very used to people making false claims, especially ones of a severe nature, and when I saw they were making a claim and presenting evidence that wasn’t supporting those claims I thought it was one of those. I apologize if there was a misunderstanding.

I don’t think so. It’s pretty toxic to accuse a person of bigotry when they aren’t posting things that are bigoted, and actually have and enforce rules in their community against bigotry. All simply because of a content genre they dislike.

I don’t like the format and I agree that there’s reasons to be skeptical but I don’t think it’s okay to outright accuse a person of being bigoted when they have not been bigoted. If they had shown evidence of the person being bigoted, rather than their evidence being a guilt by association, that would be different but I haven’t seen such evidence and it seems like their community is largely hostile to bigotry.

I don’t mind. I like all kinds of women, cis, trans, tops, bottoms. I just like women.

Sounds to me more like you personally dislike a thing and are trying to push it off as being bigoted because you don’t like it. Listen I don’t like the Greentext communities either, I think their jokes are more on the stupid side, but what they aren’t is bigoted, at least I haven’t been able to find any examples looking through those communities.

If you don’t like them that is okay, but you shouldn’t spread lies about people or places just because you personally don’t like them.

So you’re upset they allow a Greentext community? That doesn’t seem like a good reason considering lemmy.ml has one and posts in that one are of similar standards and qualities.

I did read through those posts and they themselves seem benign. Especially compared to other communities like conservative which contain legitimately hateful shit.

I think a big part of it is just that many want control, they want to limit what we’re capable of doing. They especially don’t want us doing things that go against them and their will as companies. Which is why they try to block us from doing those things they dislike so much, like generating porn, or discussing violent content.

I noticed that certain prompts people used for the purpose of AI poisoning are now marked as against the terms of service on ChatGPT so the whole “control” thing doesn’t seem so crazy.