I don’t ever really see myself having a decent job. FFS feels like Its off the table.

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    I avoid FFS not because I can’t afford, but because I don’t think the pain and stress of getting a surgery there is worth the change in appearance. My planned alternative is kigurumi.

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    10 months ago

    I was able to access FFS, but only because I transitioned late in life and was able to spend my superannuation (something like 401K for those in the US)

    If given the choice between FFS, or transitioning at your age, I’d choose to have transitioned at your age.

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        10 months ago

        Because this isn’t without context. It’s a commonly recognised term in the trans community, used by a trans person speaking to other trans folk.

        Of course, not all trans folk know the term even then, but still, the vast majority of people this question is intended for will understand the term