I want to be respectful but if they say they don’t care what pronouns I use for them, that feels like it puts the decision on me to choose what to call them and I guess I would probably default to “they” because choosing a gender for them feels weird… am I wrong?

    • ekky43@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      1 year ago

      It/that - coincidally also the pronouns I go by when in groblin mode.

      “would it like a glass of chocomuh?” - yes, it always wants a glass of chocomuh.

    • Valmond@lemmy.mindoki.com
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      1 year ago

      Just curious ; if I feel like you’re a he one day, and then a she another (for example), would that bother you, or would you prefer a person being a bit stable in the pronouns they use?

      I’m only talking about the pronouns used.