• afraid_of_zombies@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    Being attractive isn’t easy as demanding lower standards. Especially if you have some problem that you really have no control over like a severe birth defect.

    • The Snark Urge@lemmy.world
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      1 year ago

      I can’t personally relate to that. I spent half my twenties celibate on purpose because I decided to raise my standards. The secret ingredient was that it wasn’t about looks, but personality. I’m now very happily paired up, and with some healthy lifestyle changes we’re both genuinely kinda hot.

      I don’t think the “incel class” understands this. Beauty comes from within.