I think gendered pronouns (he/she) kinda suck and cause more problems than they’re worth. Sure they solve grammatical ambiguity in writing, I guess, but other than that they don’t really add anything. But on the downside they encourage either “male first” or very clunky (“he or she”) language. Not to mention the fact that it causes referring to significant groups of the population to suddenly become a “gender politics” issue, and is used as a tool to hurt said people.
Personally, I think “they” should always be acceptable and we should get rid of gender connotations for words like “dude”. In modern times where you can talk to people without physically looking at them (like here for example, you don’t know how I present IRL), there’s no reason for gender to even be a part of people’s identity any more than, for example, what sublemmys they follow or what instance they are on.
… But of course, I don’t see that happening, at least soon, but I do think in 2024 there is no excuse not to use gender neutral words if it’s ambiguous.
I also have some thoughts on “autistic people” vs “people with autism”, but I’m not sure if that’s what’s being discussed here or of interest to anyone, so I’ll leave it be. :P
I think gendered pronouns (he/she) kinda suck and cause more problems than they’re worth. Sure they solve grammatical ambiguity in writing, I guess, but other than that they don’t really add anything. But on the downside they encourage either “male first” or very clunky (“he or she”) language. Not to mention the fact that it causes referring to significant groups of the population to suddenly become a “gender politics” issue, and is used as a tool to hurt said people.
Personally, I think “they” should always be acceptable and we should get rid of gender connotations for words like “dude”. In modern times where you can talk to people without physically looking at them (like here for example, you don’t know how I present IRL), there’s no reason for gender to even be a part of people’s identity any more than, for example, what sublemmys they follow or what instance they are on.
… But of course, I don’t see that happening, at least soon, but I do think in 2024 there is no excuse not to use gender neutral words if it’s ambiguous.
I also have some thoughts on “autistic people” vs “people with autism”, but I’m not sure if that’s what’s being discussed here or of interest to anyone, so I’ll leave it be. :P