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  • What do you think my argument here is, I’ve already stated I think people should do what they want with themselves.

    Why are you so insistent that I, what you would call a cisgendered man, change my opinion on what I would do if I were to transition.

    Why are you allowed to have any thought or whim you want without disregard for how it might affect me or others, but I have to act as some kind of unilateral compassionate force for every disadvantaged soul on the planet or I’m automatically a “troll”.

    I can tell you now your own obnoxious behaviour is part of what generates negative views of the transgender community.

    You want people to live and let live, try some of your own medicine, you troglodytic accolyte of unreason.


  • I know exactly what you’re talking about, a new girl at work apologises for everything, and im always like, no need, you had know way to know.

    But the reason it irks me is because to have someone apologise to you implies you have reprimanded them in some way, which isn’t what’s happened, and it implies they have acted innappropriately, which is also incorrect.

    And that’s important, because if we dont frame it in fault/blame terms it’s more efficient and avoids abrasiveness that may turn toward conflict.





  • Call me a troll if you want, I think you’re a narcissistic, attention seeking philistine if we’re calling eachother names.

    My framing is how I feel about the situation, I don’t care if it offends, they are thoughts and opinions. If you don’t like it, no one’s making you respond to me, there are plenty of echo chambers that I’m sure you won’t have to deal with any ideas or opinions that arent what you already think.

    Go try and police someone elses opinions, because you’ve failed here.


  • So I’m not allowed to say I wouldn’t undergo current treatments because I don’t think its progressed far enough?

    And in your second paragraph, see how you had to add ugly to my statement to make it malicious and false, that is you projecting onto me, not me.

    I see your whole comment as a projection of what your thoughts and internalisations are of the current state of medical transition, concious or not.